The Real Cost of Saying "I Do": A Look at Wedding Expenses Across the U.S.

If you’re in the midst of planning your wedding, you’ve probably noticed that prices seem to be climbing—fast. According to a newly released study by Mark Broumand, The True Price of Weddings in America, the average cost of a U.S. wedding has soared to $35,000—a 16% increase from previous years. But depending on where you tie the knot, that number can fluctuate dramatically.

The Most Expensive States for Weddings

The report highlights the states where couples are shelling out the most to say "I do." Unsurprisingly, many of the most expensive wedding destinations are concentrated in the Northeast:

The Cheapest States for Weddings

On the other end of the spectrum, couples in these states are getting married for nearly a third of the price:

1. Utah – $17,000

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2. Kentucky – $20,000

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3. Idaho – $20,000

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4. Montana – $20,000

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5. Nevada – $21,000

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6. North Dakota – $22,000

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7. Nebraska – $22,000

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8. South Dakota – $23,000

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9. Iowa – $24,000

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10. Arkansas – $25,000

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What’s Driving the Increase in Wedding Costs?

Aside from inflation, there are a few key factors contributing to rising wedding expenses:

Peak wedding season costs: Weddings held from July to September tend to cost more, averaging $35,600, while off-peak months like October to December see slightly lower costs at $34,700.
Destination weddings: These celebrations now average $42,000, which is significantly higher than local ceremonies.
Changing marriage trends: The U.S. Census Bureau reports that the average age for first marriages is now 30 for men and 29 for women—compared to 23 and 20 in 1970. Many couples are prioritizing financial stability and career growth before walking down the aisle.

How to Have a Dream Wedding Without Breaking the Bank

Just because wedding costs are rising doesn’t mean you have to spend a fortune. Here are some savvy ways to cut costs:

Pick an off-peak date: Consider a Friday or Sunday wedding instead of a Saturday.
Choose a budget-friendly location: Opt for a backyard, a public park, or a smaller venue in a more affordable state.
DIY what you can: From décor to invitations, there are countless ways to personalize your day without spending big.
Prioritize your must-haves: Decide which elements are most important to you and allocate your budget accordingly.
Consider an intimate wedding: Fewer guests mean lower costs on food, seating, and décor.

Check out our Wedding Budget Tips for even more savvy savings strategies to make your wedding look luxe for less!

The Bottom Line

Weddings are a significant investment, but you don’t have to go into debt to have a beautiful and meaningful celebration. By planning wisely and focusing on what truly matters to you and your partner, you can create a stunning wedding—without the sticker shock.

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The Real Cost of Saying "I Do": A Look at Wedding Expenses Across the U.S.

The Most Expensive States for Weddings

1. New Jersey – $55,000

2. New York – $49,000

3. Rhode Island – $44,000

4. Vermont – $44,000

5. New Hampshire – $44,000

6. Maine – $44,000

7. Connecticut – $44,000

8. Washington, D.C. – $42,000

9. Massachusetts – $42,000

10. California – $41,000